everyone asks, "so how does it feel to be married?" to be perfectly honest, it feels the same! i mean, it's great that we're 'official' and all, and we had a lot of fun at the wedding and on the honeymoon of course, but overall, our relnshp is the same. we got married after 4.5 years. we'd already bought a home, lived together for a year, and basically gotten used to each other's quirks. it's just that now we're legally bound together. at first i felt bad saying that being married didn't feel different. i've realized though, that that's not a bad thing. it's actually a GOOD thing, b/c it means that we knew each other well before we got married. it wasn't like we got married and then found out all sorts of things about each other. we fell in love and got married w/ our eyes wide open... and we're still the same ppl we were before, only now we're husband and wife.