i'd always said that if i had the wedding to do over again, i'd A) go for the destination wedding we originally wanted, B) stick to the under-100 guests we tried to have, or C) have a huge wedding. inside i knew i never would've gone w/ the huge wedding, b/c it would've been such a headache, and plus, we wanted to (and did) pay for half of the wedding ourselves, and w/ our fairly pricey taste, we would've gone into debt. but after watching the video my friend's husband made, i think a bigger wedding would've been nice. not a HUGE wedding... but there were some ppl that tim and i just couldn't invite. like, he invited no one from work... granted, he doesn't love his work peeps the way i love mine, but still, they hang out. we were forced to stick to 100 invitations, b/c that's how many we ordered hahaha! even w/ the extra envelopes they gave us, there were none to spare, and we sent out 98 in the end. (i messed up some of writing, y'know.) we ended up w/ 160 ppl, which is a pretty good size, but some friends' laughing faces were still missing. so, as beautiful as a destination wedding would've been, i think i would've looked back on the pictures and wished there were more of my friends there. y'know, when we told our parents we wanted to have a super small wedding in the caribbean, my mom thought i'd regret doing that, b/c she didn't have a reception and sometimes regrets it. at the time i didn't believe her, but it turns out she was right.